Become an active participant of your community. The backbone of any community is all honorable, civilized, hard working,
law-abiding citizens working together for the good of all.
*Support the local schools. If you are an adult, volunteer to teach something you are passionate about.
*Have an opening night party for openings of local theatre or the symphony.
*Buy special gifts from local artists instead of the big box stores. Support a local artisan by commissioning a special
piece for a special occasion. Keep you money circulating in your home town.
*Choose local foods from local farmers markets. The food is fresher and it helps support your local community.
The above tips were sponsored by www.Ocean Spray and www.CookingChannelTV.com on 9/4/10
I say bravo to Ocean Spray and the Cooking Channel for broadcasting information that actually helps
us to make this a better world. I award them the GAFC Blue Iris Seal of Approval.
With the amount of TV programs, commercials, and movies we are bombarded with, we could easily educate our
children on how to hold themselves to a higher standard and they would not even realize how much they are being
influenced by the various media sources. The media is like anything else……you can use it for good…..or for bad.
It takes personal responsibility to make the choice to hold yourself to a higher standard.
Our book, “A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk, $27.95, provides 365 common, every
day courtesy tips written by Margery Sinclair along with the reasons to use each one. It also features Jan Polk’s
Great American Flower Collection “respect series” floral images which are reminders to treat yourself and others
with respect. By knowing this information, you automatically develop common sense and good self esteem.
We all want to be treated with respect. The earlier you learn this information, the less stressful life becomes.
These are the first tools of life to learn, not the last. This information applies to family, school, social and business
situations. Books may be purchased on line at www.janpolk.com and at www.margerysinclair.com
PS ……..Supporting the local schools applies to children also……attend school…..make it a priority…..this is where you learn
the skills which will become the foundation of life in the civilized world. It is called networking. You will meet
lifelong friends and future co-workers. These will be the people who will know you have been an honest person
from the beginning. Taking tests are all about having the right attitude. Tests are so you can find out what areas you
need to work on so you can improve……not to find out how dumb you are. No one is born knowing this information.
Our brains are our computers. You must program the information in before you can get it out. The first rule of
programming is……Garbage In…Garbage Out….which means know what information you are putting in.
Take pride in being an honorable, civilized, hard working, law abiding citizen. Pretty fades and someone will always have more money than you. Base your self-esteem on something that will last you a lifetime….your good manners and the “likeability
factor.”
show that when people know how and why, it then becomes
very easy to hold themselves to a higher standard.
You can hire career counselors, coaches, or professional
development
teams to train your employees but these are expensive
options.
Our recommended solution is to provide copies of
“A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk,
$27.95
to each employee. At
the very least, each office should have a copy
in their library for easy reference.
Honor, Respect and Manners are the core values of our
civilized society
and apply equally to men, women, and children. These are the basic skills
needed for family, school, social and business
situations. They are our
common bonds.
Everyone wants to be treated with respect.
One of the first rules of etiquette is “Unfortunately, it is
bad manners to go
around correcting other people’s bad manners. There is an exception
for parents, teachers, and managers. More than an exception, correcting
children, students, and employees is an obligation.” says
Margery Sinclair.
“Never discount the “likeability factor.” When people like you, partly
because of your good manners, they are more likely to give
you a break
in other areas. A
likeable person can be charmingly eccentric; an
unlikeable person just seems weird.
“A Year of Good Manners” is a birthday/calendar book that
provides
365 common, every day courtesies and the reasons to use each
one.
Margery Sinclair uses a very humorous style to provide very
valuable
information. For those short on social skills, not only will
your business
life improve, your home and social life will also improve. Confidence
and good self-esteem are by-products of knowing respect and
manners.
If you find you already know the information in this book,
it will
reinforce that you are on the right track. If you learn new skills,
you will find that good manners make you feel relaxed.
This tip alone will improve your “likeability factor:”
“Behave decently
to others, show consideration when there is conflict, and
maintain
composure when displeased.”
Another of Margery’s
tips: “If you are seated in the middle
seat of an
airplane, you get both armrests as compensation for being in
the middle.”
Everyone needs to know this whether you sit in the middle or
not.
Use this 180 page book to collect autographs of family
members and
it becomes a treasured family heirloom which can be passed
on to
future generations. Honorable,
civilized, likeable people make happy
families and happy employees.
“A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk,
$27.95
also features the “respect series’ artwork from Jan Polk’s
Great
American Flower Collection.
These are images which are reminders
to treat yourself and others with respect.
Margery Sinclair is an etiquette consultant/coach from
and offers business dining, travel, etc. workshops and
seminars for
corporate clients. Contact Margery at www.margerysinclair.com
Jan Polk is a professional artist from
“A Year of Good
Manners.” Purchase copies of the book as
well
as GAFC “respect series”
prints and note cards on line at
the assumption that our people are honorable,
civilized, law abiding citizens.
We depend on each other to be civil and respectful
to each other in private and in public. It depends
not on whether you are having a stressful day or not.
One of the tenets of civilized behavior is to
“maintain composure when displeased.”
We cannot have mass gatherings of people in
public if they do not respect the rule of law and
the unspoken civic duty to behave in a civilized
manner.
This is what it means that all are equal in
tyranny from the government and each other.
Which in turns means we all have a civic
duty to treat each other with respect.
When civility breaks down, we have
incidents such as the Jet BlueAirline Steward
who broke down and quit his job in response
to rudeness and physical abuse by a passenger..
Strangely, the other party that contributed to this
fiasco is not mentioned by the press. I think this
is unfair. And the fact that the Steward is facing
possibly 7 years in
prison seems outrageous.
At least he did not physically strike the rude
passenger.
The civilized way to handle this is sincere apologies by
both parties involved.
“I’m sorry” is different from “I didn’t mean to.”
Accidents are unintentional by definition, but
after they happen you should express your
responsibility and regret.
A prompt, sincerely apology is an art. It should
acknowledge the inappropriate behavior, accept
responsibility, and express regret. Assure the
person that it won’t happen again. Avoid a
conditional apology:
“Sorry if anyone was
offended.” says Margery Sinclair.
For more tips on civilized behavior, which
in turns saves much money in court costs,
we recommend “A Year
of Good Manners”
by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk $27.95
You will find 365 common, everyday
courtesy tips and the reasons to use each one.
Purchase your copy on line at
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government.
I don’t want change that allows the government to take money
out of my pocket
(via higher taxes) just so they can decide where to spend my
money. “They”
are adding extra waste by creating government jobs to
collect my money,
extra government jobs to decide how to spend my money,
and more government jobs
to actually spend it with no accounting for where it
goes. If they let me
keep it, I can spend more on where I want it to go,
especially if I want it to
stay in my community.
The change I would like to see is for each person to become
an honorable,
civilized law-abiding citizen who takes responsibility for
his/her own actions.
If more people behaved in a civilized manner, crimes of
violence would go down;
multi-millions of
dollars could saved on domestic violence and health care alone.
More honorable, law abiding citizens could eliminate the use
of illegal drugs just
by following the existing laws and not using drugs; creating
billions of dollars
saved without one government mandate or extra tax. Law enforcement departments
would shrink. If
there is no demand for illegal drugs, the supply will dry up.
Honorable, civilized, law-abiding citizens can end the
violence of poverty
in their own homes.
It takes all of us making the decision to hold ourselves
to a higher standard….it doesn’t take money to behave in
an honorable, civilized
manner and certainly not more taxes!
You can easily learn how to hold yourself to a higher
standard by reading
“A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk.
You will thank us for the information in this 180 page book.
This is the
best investment you could make.
Government can only come in and pick up the pieces. Government is not meant
to be a babysitter.
Beware of someone who changes the names of things and
claim a different result.
For example: “How many legs does
a dog have if you
call the tail a leg? Four. Calling a tail a leg doesn’t make
it a leg.
Quote by: Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865) 16th
“If you need a helping hand, look at the end of your own
arm.” says Jean Abrahamson
Honorable, civilized, law abiding citizens will take care of
each other. Our
hats are off to Bill Gates, the Microsoft
founder and Warren Buffet, the investment
guru. and other
Billionaires who are donating half of their fortunes to charity and
not because the government said they had to. I know one thing, if they just
give away the money without expecting something in return,
it will not be a
permanent solution to the meanness, violence, and incivility
of poverty.
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Uncle Sam, also known as the Government of the United States of America has no money.
Uncle Sam’s unending source of income comes directly from each Law-Abiding Citizen’s pocket
in the form of taxes. Uncle Sam may borrow money from a lot of other nations, but he still
has to pay it back WITH INTEREST using tax money which comes directly from our pockets.
Uncle Sam is now spending trillions of dollars; does anyone know if that even includes the interest
that must be paid on these loans? We know how some government officials cannot or do not even
read some of the bills that they vote for. Income comes from many sources but for most of us it comes
from working at a job. In 2010, job loss is at an all time high. Uncle Sam’s answer is to spend
more money that he does not have. This is the first time in the history of America that Uncle Sam
now has his hand in the pocket of at least two generations of children who have not even been
born. What kind of legacy is that? We are not free when we are dependent on the government.
We have seen the housing market crash because people spent money they did not have and have
no money to pay for it. The rules of common sense and math never change. Uncle Sam
will go bankrupt if he keeps spending money we do not have. When there are no jobs and
when taxes are so high that the wealthy people will just leave the country and take their money
with them, who does Uncle Sam tax then? When does Uncle Sam stop spending?
Common sense can predict the answer. You can’t do everything even if you are Uncle Sam.
One project must be eliminated in order to pay for something more pressing. It is called
pay as you go.
This is the same situation as a parent spoiling his child. A spoiled child is a handicapped child
because he never learns how to take care of himself.
Our government officials are elected from among ourselves. We cannot expect more of them
than we expect of ourselves. If we each hold our self to higher standards and expect
people in a civilized nation to behave in an honorable, civilized, law abiding manner,
America will return to the glory days for all her citizens.
“A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk, $27.95 is a way to
give something back to your country by learning how to hold yourself to a
higher standard. It takes no government mandate or higher taxes to make
America a better place; It only takes honorable, civilized, law abiding people.
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Not only do children hear what you say, they watch what
you do. All adults
are roll models for children whether
you like it or not.
There is no opting out. You are
either a good role model or a bad roll model.
Children by age 8 are expected to have the same table
manners
as their parents or better.
By teaching your children honor, respect and good manners
early in their life, you give them a chance to develop
common sense and good self esteem. These are tools
which will help them recognize and decide what is good
and what is bad for them.
“People with good manners have a lifetime advantage in
their personal and professional lives.” says
Margery Sinclair
We recommend everyone read “A Year of Good Manners”
by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk at least once.
This is a reference book that you will be delighted to
have in your library.
The book may be purchased on line at www.janpolk.com for
$27.95.
You may also order the book at www.margerysinclair.com.
Margery also offers classes and corporate workshops.
See and hear Margery Sinclair in her own words tell you
about “A Year of Good Manners” by
Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk. Margery is being interviewed July 15, 2010, by
co-host Tiffany Ogle,
and sub co-host Lisa
Manna filling in for regular co-host Molly Fay from the Milwaukee NBC affiliate
show “The Morning Blend.” http://www.themorningblend.com/videos/98499189.html
The artwork in the book is Jan Polk’s Great American Flower
Collection “respect series” fine art
watercolor images which are reminders to treat yourself and
others with respect.
The Morning Blend originates in
and airs weekdays from 9 - 10 a.m. on TODAY’S
TMJ4 in
and NBC26 in
businesses, charities and events of interest to those living in southeastern
About your hosts Tiffany and Molly: http://www.themorningblend.com/hosts
Tiffany Ogle’s website:
www.TiffanyOgle.web.officelive.com
Molly Fay’s Blog: http://www.themorningblend.com/blogs/mollyfay
Margery Sinclair’s website: www.margerysinclair.com … Offers etiquette workshops and AYOGM
Jan Polk’s website: www.janpolk.com ….. Purchase your copy online here $27.95
When I am at book signings for “A Year
of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and
Jan Polk, I often hear the comments,
“They used to teach this information.” or
“My daughter in law needs to read this
book.”
Parents are the ones who should be teaching
this information and they should be modeling
this information for their children. All adults
are role models when
in public and at any
gathering of human beings.
You may say you don’t
want to be a role model…..but you are! It is only
a question of whether you are a good role model
or a poor role model….and that is your personal
choice. You are free
to make your choice; however,
you have a civic duty to behave decently to others
at all times.
Respect, Good Manners and the Rule of
Law are the tools that make the United
States of America one of the greatest
nations on earth for all of us. No matter
how bad it is for some of us, it is still
far worse somewhere else in the world.
Because of the Rule of Law and because of good
manners, each of us in civilized society
can feel safe in our homes because the majority
of us are respectful, honorable, civilized
law abiding people.
By the time you are age 5, your values have
been formed. It is up
to parents to teach
our children to be respectful to themselves
and to others. This
is not information
we are born with. It
must be taught. The
good news is one can overcome a poor home
environment just by learning these at any
age. It is never too late to hold yourself
to a higher standard.
“What does good manners have to
do with home invasions?”
Here a just a few good manners tips from
AYOGM:
“If you break it, fix it.
If you can’t fix it, find
someone who can—and pay the bill. If it
belongs to someone else and you want to
use it, ask permission.”
Common sense
then develops and one can reason
that you do not go on private property
without being invited and you don’t take
anything unless you ask permission. The laws
of the land also state it is illegal to
break into a home and take something
that is not yours.
There are laws
to punish those who break the laws.
By teaching your children honor, respect
and manners you have taken the first
steps to empowering them so they know
what is expected of them in the civilized
world and making this
a better world for
all of us. There is
never any justification
to steal from others.
The police cannot be everywhere. They
depend on the majority of us to be an honorable,
civilized, law abiding citizens who work
with the police department when necessary.
If the police aren’t there, we must then
depend on ourselves.
Thank goodness
for Respect and
Manners and the Second
Amendment.
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Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk
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gender, or
upbringing, you alone can correct this problem and not have
to spend long hours and hard earned money on anger
management
classes
The cause of your problem is poor manners. The solution to
your anger management problem is to use the following
tip from Etiquette Consultant Margery Sinclair and you will
be a much happier person.
“Behave decently to
others, show consideration when there is
conflict, and
maintain composure when displeased.
Knowing
etiquette makes you
feel relaxed and confident.”
All it takes is a little practice. Try it.
You will like it. Remember,
actions taken in anger only makes things worse and it shows
you are out of control……which is making you mad in the
first
place. When you blow
up, you might as well wear a sign that says
I am out of control,
no one listens to me, you win, I don’t know how
to handle this
situation, I don’t like myself, go ahead and snicker.”
As long as you
maintain composure, you are in control and
you maintain respect for yourself and others.
Read other valuable tips like this in our book
“A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk.
$27.95. The best
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Mark your calendar now! Jan Polk will be at the authors’ tent along with a few others on ,
July 10,
2010 from
Authors Stroll
in
Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk.
Waynesville is known as the “Antiques Capital of the
things going on this weekend including a car show, an
antique show, our arts show,
& sidewalk sales at the shops. We are looking forward to
great weather (finally).
See you Saturday!
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have been shaped.
It is so important to teach children to value themselves
because of their honor
(we can trust what they say) and because they are respectful,
civilized, law
abiding citizens. .
The goal of civilized society is to remain calm when displeased
and to show respect for life including your own. You don’t have to like everyone
you meet, but you do have to be respectful to all human
beings. When you install
values in your children solely on how they look
(pretty fades) or how much money
they have or don’t
have (there will always be someone who has
more) they will never
have good self esteem
and will always feel unsettled and may even develop unlikable
traits. When you destroy a child’s self esteem and try to
control their every move, you
have done a disservice to your child and to yourself. Even when a person becomes
successful as an adult, if they have been damaged by parents
in their early years, they will
not be able to fully enjoy their success. It takes years and years to get over a bad
childhood, but it can be done. Knowing respect and manners is one way to
over
come a bad childhood.
“Teaching etiquette is the kindest thing you can do for a child. It predates law and
everything else in getting along with other people.” says
Margery Sinclair. These
are the first and the most important tools to learn as one
begins their
journey through life.
One develops common sense and good self-esteem just by
knowing respect and manners. Respect and manners are facts we must be
taught
and the earlier the better.
Each of us determines what our own life will be. We gather
information by observing and by trial and error. Your children do watch what you
do as well as what you say.
Teaching respect and manners to you child are more
important than leaving them a lot of money. A
parent’s job is to prepare you child
for life as an
honorable, civilized, law-abiding adult. Children will have a wonderful
childhood if their parents are there for them and leading by
example.
Our common bonds are we all want to be treated with respect
including children.
Once children know how to value themselves by civilized
society’s standards,
they develop a backbone and good self esteem. If someone says something
derogatory or unkind to them, they will know better and will
not be devastated by
unkind and untrue comments.
They will know the rude person is in the wrong and
not themselves. Bullies will have less power over children
with good self esteem.
As an adult, when your self-esteem is tied to honorable,
civilized values, a financial
set back will become an obstacle to overcome. It will not destroy you as a person.
Our book “A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and
Jan Polk, offers
365 common, every day, courtesies written by Margery
Sinclair. Not only does
Margery use a humorous style to convey very important
information, she includes
a lot of verbs with
specific words of what to do or say.
Margery also includes the
reason to use each tip.
When the reason changes, then it may be time for the rule to
change. We do not include fancy terms and high brow
snooty information which
leaves you wondering “What
does that mean?”. “A Year of Good Manners” also
features Jan Polk’s Great American Flower Collection
“respect series” beautiful fine
art floral images which are reminders to treat yourself with
respect as
well as others.
The whole goal of civilized society is to be respectful to
self and others at all times.
Even though technology evolves, it does not wipe out the
fact that civilized people
are expected to be civilized to each other whether you see
them face to face or not.
Two people texting to each other in a room full of other
people is disrespectful. It is
equivalent to speaking a foreign language in front of
someone who does not speak
the language.
Private conversations are to be held in private. It is easy to hold
yourself to a higher standard when you know how and why.
We invite you to treat yourself to this birthday book by
purchasing it at
www.janpolk.com “$27.95.
The perfect gift for new mothers and fathers!
a crushing, harsh government that does not respect
individual rights and the well being of all of our people.
is only as strong as her people. We elect our leaders
from among ourselves yet we can stand without leaders if
necessary. We as
individuals decide how honorable and
self-reliant we will each be. Although we have a civic duty to
behave in an honorable and civilized manner, we choose to do
this because we want to.
Government cannot mandate or
enforce this aspect of our lives.
Proud Patriots and Legal Immigrants are the ones who
appreciate our country the most and
value our rule of law
which makes civilized society available to all. They know
what it is like elsewhere and do not take our freedoms for
granted. The bigger
the government, the more freedoms we
must give up.
We speak English to show respect to our country. We
acknowledge God as our Creator. We expect residents who
live here to speak English as a sign of appreciation and
respect
to be able to live
here. We expect our leaders to defend our
Constitution, our laws, and our freedoms. We expect our citizens
to do the same. These
are our common bonds.
Keep vigilant
they do. If
falls it is because our people are no longer
honorable, civilized, law abiding citizens in all walks of
life, including
big business and government. When only monetary gains determine
our actions, and honor and respect for each other are no
longer valued,
we will no longer be able to recover. High interest rates on
multi-trillion dollars of debt will keep us from being free.
United We Stand – Divided We Fall
May God continue to Bless
Happy July 4!
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Thank you to all the wonderful fathers. It is not how much money you bestow on your children
that makes a wonderful father. If they feel respected, safe and loved and you have taught
them to be an honorable person, you are a treasured Dad and we celebrate you today.
If you don’t receive a copy of “A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk,
you will want to treat yourself to a copy. This will become a valuable heirloom to help you
pass your values onto future generations along with the hand writings of family members.
www.janpolk.com Original Art, Limited Edition Prints, and Note Cards
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Thank you to all the wonderful fathers. It is not how much money you bestow on your children
that makes a wonderful father. If they feel respected, safe and loved and you have taught
them to be an honorable person, you are a treasured Dad and we celebrate you today.
If you don’t receive a copy of “A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk,
you will want to treat yourself to a copy. This will become a valuable heirloom to help you
pass your values onto future generations along with the hand writings of family members.
www.janpolk.com Original Art, Limited Edition Prints, and Note Cards
www.ayearofgoodmanners.com $27.95 Securely purchase your copy on-line.
They are trying to escape via illegal drugs,
alcohol, tattoos, and
no telling what else. They have an empty
feeling and don’t know why.
Some don’t want to get old. Some
are trying to escape what they consider “the mainstream”
because
they don’t know how
to fit in or because they think they don’t
have enough money to fit in.
The truth is we all have a common
bond whether we like it or not.
Our nation is only a strong as our people. A chain is only as
strong as its weakest link.
You cannot push a chain into a
round circle…however you can easily pull it into a circle.
People are hungering for something but they don’t know what.
They think money will fix all of their problems. The truth is
it will not. A lot of
money comes with another set of problems
of its own. They don’t want to be told what to do or how to
do it.
They think this is what freedom is. They think only of themselves.
Some expect the government to come in and fix
everything…..
what ever it is. The
truth is the government has no money until
they take it from the
people. The government cannot do
everything
and the things they can do, they cannot do in an instant.
One is never truly free if one is dependant on the
government or
someone else. The
truth is we are all dependant on one another in
some way; therefore, we should stand united in our common
values
which still leaves room for individual expression. Each of us is a
valued person in our
something, you should give something back……it is the
American
Way…it is the civilized way of living the good life. These
core values (respect and manners) make the good life available to all
who live in freedom in the
We must be prepared to be able to live on our own and to
work with
our fellow citizens for the good of all. We need leadership but we
need to be able to lead in our own homes and communities.
In 2010, some businesses try to solve these problems by
offering
workshops on human resource development and other fancy
names.
Sports organizations are having to create “fan code of
conduct” rules.
Shopping events have to have guards on the grounds to
control the
crowds and on it goes. The government has so many free hand
outs
yet poverty still exists. The only thing that is growing is
the entitlement
mentality that takes without giving back. New technology has
evolved
to where news spreads around the globe in minutes, yet some
people
seem to think there are no rules on this new horizon.
It all boils down to civilized behavior when coming in
contact with
another human being regardless if you can see that person
face to face
or not. Etiquette makes you feel calm and confident.. Common sense
and a backbone are by products of knowing etiquette. We all have
a civic duty to behave in a civilized manner. Parents have an obligation
to train their children to be honorable people who can leave
the nest and
make it on their own when they come of age. This is not information
we are born with. It
must be taught to us. If we are not
lucky enough
to have parents teach this information to us, we still have
an civic duty
to learn it by some other source.
It is easy to hold yourself to a higher standard when you
know how
and why. Our book, “A Year of Good Manners” by Margery
Sinclair and
Jan Polk has the tools you need to live the good life. It is an easy read
and uses a humorous style to teach very valuable life long
skills. There is
a reason to use each tip.
When you know why, it is easier to accept the
information. The
earlier you learn these in your life, the longer you will
have to be a happier person.
You no longer have to be intimidated by
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Today on the radio I just heard that the rage of college
students is “vodka shots in the eye” and
black tar heroine which is so potent it can kill you on the first try. Are these people just stupid or do
they just have no common sense?. They have no respect for their own bodies. I don’t buy that
it is they are too young to know better….at age 18 or
older? Life is hard enough when you have
a healthy
body and everything works. Believe it or not, old age is
actually a good time if you haven’t destroyed
your body before you get there.
After the age of five, if your parents have not instilled in
you right from wrong, you have a civic duty to teach yourself how to become a
contributing member of society and make it a better place.. The world is not all about you. Your job is to show respect to your own body
and then to those around you. It is
called civilized society. Freedom does not mean freedom from civic
duties. It means freedom
from oppressive government.
We should not have to have the Government make laws to tell
you not to text while driving.
Common sense says for your own safety and the safety of
others, you have a civic duty to
behave in a responsible manner. A car is not a toy. It requires your full
attention when driving.
Just because you are
drunk or high on something does not mean you are no longer responsible for your
own actions. You may not know what you
are doing, but it is your responsibility to keep from getting in
that condition. It is
not your friends responsibility to take care of you,,,,,it is your
responsibility
to take care of yourself and not harm anyone else.
To much I hear on TV and the radio people talking about what
they got away with. When you
are breaking the law and not getting caught, you are not
getting away with anything. You are
making our country less honorable, less strong and less
safe. Our country was founded
by honorable people whose word meant something. People were proud of the family name…
it meant something good and dependable. It meant something to live in a family with
a
mother and a father.
Family, honor, trust, love, security, faith, should mean more than any
amount of money.
Citizens who are honorable, self-reliant and responsible for ones own
action
are the foundation of the
When honorable citizens become the minority instead of the
majority, the
will no longer be a beacon to the world.
Big Government means people have given
up their freedom to take care of themselves. You may be lazy now, but when big government
rules completely, they know how to make you fall in
line……try getting away with something
then. If you have no
idea what I am talking about, it is time for you to hit the history books.
The most powerful tools in life are respect and
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These are the first
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OF THE
STATES OF AMERICA
AND TO THE REPUBLIC, FOR WHICH IT STANDS,
ONE NATION UNDER GOD,
INDIVISIBLE, WITH
AND
JUSTICE FOR ALL!
No, freedom isn’t free and it won’t last long if
you neglect your civic duties and take your
freedoms for granted.
May God Bless Our Troops and those who gave
their lives for our country.
When you read this, please stop for a moment
And Say a Prayer for our servicemen, past and present.
Of all the gifts you could give a US Soldier,
Prayer is the very best One.
Respect and thanks
to those who are still serving would be appreciated.
Remembering those who have fallen, is a way to show
our respect.
Remember, our country is only as honorable and strong
as its people. Our
soldiers are volunteers and come from
among our citizens. Our government elected officials are
elected from among our citizens. Each of us plays an important
part in working together for
good of all.
We have the freedom to do most anything we want.
We also have a civic duty to behave in a civilized
manner and to be
respectful to each other.
We have these freedoms because we are honorable,
self-reliant,
civilized people who
believe in personal responsibility for our own
actions and who can still work together even if our govern-
ment officials don’t show up immediately in times of
emergencies.
United We Stand – Divided We Fall.
HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND
The values of our country are recorded in our book,
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These are values which must be taught. They are best taught
by parents. When people hear the title, they say this should
be taught in our schools! No, these values should be taught
at home and then we should expect to see them everywhere
including our schools, our movies, our music and especially
in our leaders. They originate in our homes. We all have
a civic duty to know these values.
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I did not write the following, but received it as an email. Civilized people have dreams like this and it does come true for
some of us:
It was a busy morning, about 8:30 , when an elderly
gentleman in his 80’s arrived at the hospital to have stitches removed from his
thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it
would be over an hour before someone
would to able to see him. I
saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with
another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so
I talked to one of the doctors, got the
needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had
another doctor’s appointment this
morning,
as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the
nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she
had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer’s
Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit
late.
He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had
not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, ‘And you still go every
morning , even though she doesn’t know who you are?’
He smiled
As he patted my hand and said,
‘She doesn’t know me,
But
I still know who she is…’
I had to hold back tears as he left. I had goose bumps on my arm and thought,
‘That is the kind of love
I want in my life.’
True love is neither
Physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will
be, and will not be.
With all the jokes and fun that are in emails, sometimes
there is one that comes along that has an important message.
This one I thought
I could share with you.
The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of
everything;
They just make the best
Of everything they have.
Life isn’t about how to survive the storm,
but
“How to dance in the rain.”
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Election Day is Tuesday, May 18 in Ky. I say vote for the most honorable person running.
Honor trumps experience. A honorable person will not lie, cheat or steal.
How do we trust any one who cannot read or will not read bills before they vote on them.
Things can be changed before they are signed by the President and no one (who didn’t read it)
would even know it.
Most of today’s problems are 25 year old problems. What does that say for the incumbents?
It is nice to see the silent majority speaking up. When civility is no longer practiced by our
leaders and they can no longer work with anyone outside their own party, it is time to get some who
care more for the country than they do for their own careers.
Civility must be taught. We cannot expect more of our leaders than we expect of ourselves.
A way to contribute to our country is to be an honorable, civilized, law-abiding citizen and
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